The birth of a child is a commonplace event, yet for the two individuals who become parents it is nothing short of miraculous. This transition to parenthood is a major life event, and both the new mother and father have to adapt to the...
moreThe birth of a child is a commonplace event, yet for the two individuals who become parents it is nothing short of miraculous. This transition to parenthood is a major life event, and both the new mother and father have to adapt to the changes brought about by the responsibility of raising a child. For men and women the challenges of parenthood will differ, and the new parents’ relationship will undergo change as the demands of their new roles become apparent (Belsky and Pensky 1988, Roosa 1988). In consequence, becoming a parent, although largely viewed as a positive event, can place huge strains on both a couple’s relationship and on individual functioning within that relationship. Having a baby can be extremely stressful, and as with any major life change, entails some degree of risk, with the challenge of raising children causing new problems or highlighting existing vulnerabilities for both parents (Cowan and Cowan 1995). Parenthood has, therefore, the potential to change both men and women’s feelings about themselves and their relationships as they take on the important role of nurturing their children from birth into adulthood.