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How to be your best self, explained by experts.

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Why are single men so miserable?Why are single men so miserable?
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When men lack the skills to build intimacy, their relationships — and well-being — suffer.

By Allie Volpe
Explain It to Me
Why self-help might be making you feel worseWhy self-help might be making you feel worse
Podcast
Explain It to Me

One author’s quest to get to the bottom of our self-improvement obsession.

By Jonquilyn Hill
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The reason people are always hurting your feelingsThe reason people are always hurting your feelings
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Some of us are much more sensitive than others.

By Allie Volpe
The modern taboo that Americans just can’t seem to break
Advice

What if we were a little less scared to talk about death?

By Sara Youngblood Gregory
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Is this fitness metric just making us feel worse?Is this fitness metric just making us feel worse?
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How 20,000 steps became a new sign of wellness.

By Allie Volpe
What broke teenage romance?
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Teenagers today are dating less than ever. What’s really happening?

By Charley Locke
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Beware of this silent, seething relationship-killerBeware of this silent, seething relationship-killer
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Suddenly can’t stand the way your partner chews? That’s resentment.

By Allie Volpe
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Relationships are hard work. Right?Relationships are hard work. Right?
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How much effort is too much to keep your romance afloat?

By Allie Volpe
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Losing my hair sucked. Trying to regrow it has been even worse.Losing my hair sucked. Trying to regrow it has been even worse.
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A barrage of products promise you can get your hair — and self-esteem — back.

By Maria Yagoda
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Gen Z misery, explained in one chartGen Z misery, explained in one chart
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Young adults from around the world are struggling.

By Allie Volpe
The internet is littered with advice. What’s it doing to your brain?
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How to contend with an onslaught of guidance in an uncertain, lonely world.

By Eliza Brooke
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Don’t let a messy house stop you from hostingDon’t let a messy house stop you from hosting
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No one cares as much as you do.

By Allie Volpe
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When your garden fails, the magic happensWhen your garden fails, the magic happens
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Nothing will cure you of perfectionism faster than trying to grow living things.

By Natalie Pattillo
Life
You should be setting rejection goalsYou should be setting rejection goals
Life

Getting your dreams crushed can be surprisingly good for you.

By Jillian Anthony
Life
The transformative power of journalingThe transformative power of journaling
Life

Writing down your thoughts can be good for your mental health. Here’s how to start — and keep at it.

By Jillian Anthony
My nail-biting quest for confidence
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I wanted to be confident. Then I started having doubts.

By Rachel Sugar
Life
Major change doesn’t have to wreck your friendshipsMajor change doesn’t have to wreck your friendships
Life

Everyone evolves. Your friendships can too.

By Angel Martinez
Technology
Instagram’s Teen Accounts aren’t really for teensInstagram’s Teen Accounts aren’t really for teens
Technology

What to know about Meta’s new restrictions on young people’s social media use.

By Ellen Ioanes
Is it possible to be fully authentic?
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Why getting “real” in the age of personal branding feels so hard.

By Allie Volpe
Relationships aren’t always going to be totally balanced. That isn’t a bad thing.
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We shouldn’t give up on others so easily.

By Allie Volpe
It’s okay to suck when you try something new
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You don’t need to be good at a hobby to enjoy it.

By Allie Volpe
A personality test can’t tell you who you are
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The desire to define ourselves, from love languages to Myers-Briggs types.

By Allie Volpe
A guide to meditation for people who think they can’t meditate
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The no-rules approach to building a meditation practice.

By Allie Volpe
Post-graduation advice you’ll actually use
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Set a budget, don’t center your life around work, and other advice for graduates.

By Allie Volpe
7 burning questions about sunscreen, answered
The Vox guide to extreme heat

Yes, you need to wear it.

By Allie Volpe
Why are you crying?
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Consider where, when, and around whom you cry.

By Allie Volpe
9 easy ways to make your life a little better
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Treat sleep like it’s a friend, make a single-item to-do list, and other unexpected ways to improve your life.

By Allie Volpe
The beginner’s guide to bird-watching
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No, you don’t need a fancy pair of binoculars to get into bird-watching, according to avid birders.

By Allie Volpe
Culture
Self-care at the end of the worldSelf-care at the end of the world
Culture

Pop culture is America’s subconscious. Right now, it’s worried about work.

By Constance Grady
Science
Why willpower is overratedWhy willpower is overrated
Science

Psychologists increasingly think effortful restraint is not the key to the good life. So what is?

By Brian Resnick
Science
How the West became a self-obsessed cultureHow the West became a self-obsessed culture
Science

A new book explores the history of individualism in the West.

By Sean Illing
Politics
A loophole in federal law allows companies to pay disabled workers $1 an hourA loophole in federal law allows companies to pay disabled workers $1 an hour
Politics

One nonprofit workshop paid them in gift cards.

By Alexia Fernández Campbell
Life
I was a self-help guru. Here’s why you shouldn’t listen to people like me.I was a self-help guru. Here’s why you shouldn’t listen to people like me.
Life

I learned the hard way that the people trying to solve your problems often need help the most.

By Michelle Goodman
The myth of self-control
Science

Psychologists say using willpower to achieve goals is overhyped. Here’s what actually works.

By Brian Resnick
Culture
“I feel like a force no one can stop”: How cosplay empowers women“I feel like a force no one can stop”: How cosplay empowers women
Culture

But being a part of the female fandom isn’t worthwhile if it makes women feel bad about their bodies. Luckily, the women who love comics have found a way to feel empowered by celebrating the human body without body-shaming: cosplay.

By Kelsey McKinney
7 things marshmallows teach us about self-control
Life

Self-control is easier than you think. Here’s how to master it.

By Joseph Stromberg